A Reflection
Its not an easy ride being in a relationship.......
There are lots of up's an down's.... Arguments happen, its all part of being in one.
It hasn't been an easy 3 months to reach the point of openness Ada and i are at now.
Thank goodness for the both of us, we both want to settle arguments as they arise and never let a sun set on it.
It takes time for people to open up. It took time for the both of us. judinging by other people's time, it took us a short while, but for others it takes a while. Patience is the key to a lot of things.
A lot of life lessons were laernt teh hard way, for the both of us. We were able to get to the point where we are at now is because we've both been through hell and back.
A breakup isn't an easy thing to go through, we both had to go through 2 very tough relationships and breakups to learn what we know. I guess it comes with age and experiences. Ada and i, we both have found heaven in each others embrace. the bad relationships in the past have taught us to know and find what we want in our life partner. I guess in each other, we've found it.
Problems arise, as is natural when 2 people are involved in something bigger than themselves. The key to a lot of things is patience, especially in a relationship. The other key, is perserverance. Not giving up and always believeing that its gonna work. Miracles happen when you believe. In a relationship, a lot of it is about waiting.
The important thing to know is that, when problems arise, hold each other's hand and walk through the problem together. Yes, i know that at times it seems impossible and is super tough, but grit your teeth and get through it. It'll only serve a purpose to bring the 2 people involved closer together. A relationship isn't that much different from a very close friendship. the only exception being that the emotional attachment to the person is much much deeper.
As with all friendships and relationships, communication is important. yet, to reach a deep level of communication also takes time. Time and Patience, to wait for the other person to open up. It does take a while for one to be comfortable with another. Sometimes it takes a long while, but never give up and the end result will be so beautiful.
These are things that i've found out, from experiences, from talking to Ada, from experiencing love.
that's about it.
enjoy.......
There are lots of up's an down's.... Arguments happen, its all part of being in one.
It hasn't been an easy 3 months to reach the point of openness Ada and i are at now.
Thank goodness for the both of us, we both want to settle arguments as they arise and never let a sun set on it.
It takes time for people to open up. It took time for the both of us. judinging by other people's time, it took us a short while, but for others it takes a while. Patience is the key to a lot of things.
A lot of life lessons were laernt teh hard way, for the both of us. We were able to get to the point where we are at now is because we've both been through hell and back.
A breakup isn't an easy thing to go through, we both had to go through 2 very tough relationships and breakups to learn what we know. I guess it comes with age and experiences. Ada and i, we both have found heaven in each others embrace. the bad relationships in the past have taught us to know and find what we want in our life partner. I guess in each other, we've found it.
Problems arise, as is natural when 2 people are involved in something bigger than themselves. The key to a lot of things is patience, especially in a relationship. The other key, is perserverance. Not giving up and always believeing that its gonna work. Miracles happen when you believe. In a relationship, a lot of it is about waiting.
The important thing to know is that, when problems arise, hold each other's hand and walk through the problem together. Yes, i know that at times it seems impossible and is super tough, but grit your teeth and get through it. It'll only serve a purpose to bring the 2 people involved closer together. A relationship isn't that much different from a very close friendship. the only exception being that the emotional attachment to the person is much much deeper.
As with all friendships and relationships, communication is important. yet, to reach a deep level of communication also takes time. Time and Patience, to wait for the other person to open up. It does take a while for one to be comfortable with another. Sometimes it takes a long while, but never give up and the end result will be so beautiful.
These are things that i've found out, from experiences, from talking to Ada, from experiencing love.
that's about it.
enjoy.......
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